A Quiet Corner

Savannah

2011-04-22T14:30:00.013-05:00

We spent most of our time in

the downtown historical

Savannah area but one

morning we did drive out to Tybee Island.

It wasn't our favorite part of the trip

but we did climb the 178 steps to

the top of this historic lighthouse

which was built in 1732.

The view from the top.

The island in very 1950-ish.

The beach was big but there were no

crashing waves so I felt cheated,

The day we went to Tybee Island I had hoped to visit

the Bonaventure Cemetery but I was not feeling

too great so we skipped it.

However, there was the Colonial Park Cemetery

within our walking distance so we did visit it.

It is the final resting place for Revolutionary soldiers

and also about 700 people who died of

Yellow Fever in 1820

During the Civil War the Union soldiers camped here

and changed some of the dates and names

on the tombstones and moved them around.

The whole back wall of the cemetery had these stones

that no one knows where they belong.

Although Savannah is 20 minutes away from the ocean,

they are on the river and they have a kind of 'river walk'

with shops and restaurants along the way.

This is Huey's where we had lunch along the river one day.

Goose Feathers was our favorite breakfast/bakery spot.

And of course we had to eat at Lady & Sons.

The food was good but nothing spectacular.

You have to make a reservation early in the day and

when you show up they tell you to go across the

street and wait until they call your name.

This is about half of the crowd waiting for the 5:00 seating.

We had a great lunch at Six Pence - an English pub.

Julia Roberts fans might recognize it from one

of her movies. I don't remember the name

but she stood looking in the window at her husband

with a baby in her arms.

We spent most of our time wandering the area which was

built in grids with 22 city park 'squares'.

It was modeled with an European flair.

This is a huge cathedral which was started before 1850.

Pretty fancy.

We didn't eat at every restaurant or tour every home

but we loved just wandering from square to square

and taking in the sights.

With this picture think Forest Gump-

remember the feather floating down?

This is the square where he sat waiting for the bus.

You'll notice there is no bench - it's in a museum

because they were afraid it would be vandalized if left out.

But we did get to see Forest -

This is the City Market - more little shops

and restaurants. This is across the square from our

hotel so we ate in here a few times.

The squares were all different but

most either had fountains or monuments -

and they all had lots of benches which were

favorite places to eat, read, or just relax.

We did not stay here but this is a haunted

bed and breakfast - the Kehoe House.

We did tour this home - the Isaiah Davenport home.

Built around 1815 this was not considered the

home of a wealthy family but it was pretty neat.

This was my favorite - The Owens-Thomas House.

Built around 1816 - it doesn't look like much from

the outside but the inside had a lot of character.

It even had a 'bridge' on the second level.

Of course you're not allowed to take pictures inside.

I found the streets very quaint.

Our hotel - Avia- is in the background.

We opted for a modern hotel with

good plumbing.

The statue is of John Mercer,

a songwriter who wrote Moon River and

Days of Wine and Roses.

The squares usually each had their own significance.

Usually where there was a monument there was a body

or two buried beneath it.

This is the Mercer-Williams home which we did tour.

It was the location for the movie

Midnight in the Garden of Good and Evil.

This house was also in the movie -

it was the judge's home.

Just a few more homes and squares we enjoyed

as we wandered:

Steve was pleasantly surprised at how much he enjoyed

the city - I think he was dreading the whole trip.

It's a great walking city with lots of history but be sure

to go when it's pleasant weather - I hear it gets awful

hot and humid during the summer.

Coen is 4!

2011-03-03T07:32:00.005-06:00

We celebrated Coen's 4th Birthday this week.

It was a good time and the kids always have fun.

Popo managed to grab him for a few seconds

during all his running around.

Sweet little Hadley trying to keep up with all the fun.

Jax and Ayden

Spencer playing 'hide and seek'

Gracie watching Coen getting ready to blow out his candle.

Coen is such a cute little stinker -

you know how those 'middle' children are.

Love you always Coen and Happy Birthday!

Look Who's Seven!

2011-02-10T11:26:00.004-06:00

Our sweet baby Spencer is

growing so fast.

These seven years have gone too quickly!

Brother Coen - he has a birthday in a few weeks.

Gracie eyeing the cake and ice cream - yum.

Ayden giving in to giving Nana a smile.

Jax will give me a smile but he doesn't want to take

his eyes off something.

Baby Hadley helping Daddy put Spencer's new toys together.

One of those rare moments when all six were present

and agreeable for a picture.

They had at least 3 cameras on them so

that's why they are looking in all directions -

but hey - I'll take what I can get.

Happy Birthday Spencer - love you always!

The Birthday Season Begins

2011-01-30T13:33:00.003-06:00

We celebrated GG and Jessie's birthday last night.

Happy Birthday Millie (GG) and

Happy Birthday Jessie!

Christmas 2010

2010-12-27T16:07:00.005-06:00

This Christmas season has been one of the most

hectic and yet memorable ones we've had.

There have been days I've enjoyed the holiday

and days I couldn't wait for it to be over.

We did have the best kind of

'White Christmas' -

beautiful white snow without ice or too many inches.

Of course, most of you know the hectic part has been

the excitement of the public's demand for the

music and video of Steve & Becky's song,

"Where's The Line To See Jesus."

They were so busy all of December with

orders, emails, interviews, etc. etc.

which involved the whole family at least some of the time.

Even Spencer had to do some interviews and photo shoots.

It seemed almost unreal when Christmas Eve actually finally arrived.

We always go to Pietro's with Steve's family for Christmas Eve.

Hadley with her momma Jen.

Gracie with her Uncle Karl.

Brothers Coen & Spencer with cousin Jackson.

Jackson with sister Ayden.

After dinner we go over to Paul & Nancy's for cookies and games.

Hadley playing ping pong.

Ayden taking in all of the commotion -

Paul has about 7 pinball machines.

Coen playing pinball.

Robbie and Spencer playing some WII game.

Gracie enjoying the quieter corner with a cookie.

Jackson learning the pinball skills.

Christmas Day I woke up not feeling at all well.

Not wanting to just cancel Christmas I made Steve do

all the hands on cooking while I supervised.

However, I never even got out my camera

so you'll just have to believe they all seemed to enjoy

the food and I think the kids enjoyed opening gifts.

I know Coen told me more than once that he

really liked the gifts I got him - such a sweetie.

We even had special guests Alan, Angie, Ben, & Mindy.

I enjoyed visiting even though I didn't eat a bite all day

and I appreciated everyone's tolerance of my

sad excuse for hospitality that day.

I hope everyone had a wonderful Christmas

and will enjoy a Happy New Year!

Thanksgiving

2010-11-27T07:50:00.004-06:00

We had a great Thanksgiving again this year.

Jen's and Becky's families joined

Steve and I for fun and feasting.

Hadley, Coen, & Spencer.

Caught Jen with her mouth full - and Hadley.

Nate, Grace, & Becky

GG & caught Jen again while eating.

(Sorry about that Jenny)

Karl & Steve

It's always odd to me to be able to seat everyone

around the dining room table.

I can remember years when we had anywhere

between 25 - 45 people for Thanksgiving -

of course, I was much younger back then!

I remember one year we had 3 turkeys.

I've had a lot of great memories of Thanksgiving

from when I was a child at Mom's or Aunt Maude's.

Then Nancy use to do Thanksgiving and Christmas

until I had a house to take over Thanksgiving.

But as our families grow we have to alter our traditions.

Hope everyone had a great holiday weekend -

now I must get back to my Christmas decorating!

Birthday Girls Weekend

2010-11-19T14:30:00.008-06:00

Last weekend was birthday time for Hadley and Gracie.

Hadley is 1 Year Old!

I know she doesn't look real excited but

poor baby had strep and just woke from her nap.

Just chilling at first with Daddy & GG

Now she's awake and loves her

new baby momma & daddy gave her.

The cousins had to miss since Hadley had strep

but brother Coen

and big brother Spencer were there.

She was tickled to be sung to.

but being her mother's young lady

this was about as messy as she was willing to get.

The next day we had Gracie's party-

who is 3 years old!

The party was at the Carousel House and here she

is having a very serious discussion with her

momma about the noise level of the Carousel music.

Waiting patiently as we sing her the birthday song.

Blowing out the candles.

Uncle Stevie sharing his wisdom with his nephews.

Ayden enjoying her cupcake.

Same for Jackson.

Spencer - he's looking so grown up lately.

Coen deep in thought.

What better way to end a party but

to share a cupcake with mommy!

Happy Birthday Hadley and Gracie

Nana loves you so much!

Jax is Two

2010-09-18T21:00:00.003-05:00

Happy Birthday to Jackson

who is big boy 2 now.

We had fun at his

"All Aboard" Train party.

Candle blowing time.

Jackson enjoyed his presents but he wanted

everyone else to open them for him.

Big sister Ayden

Sweet cousin Gracie

Toothless Cousin Spencer :)

Constant Motion Cousin Coen

and Baby Cousin Hadley

Hope you have fun with all those trains & cars Jax -

Happy Birthday!

Victoria and Home

2010-09-15T14:09:00.008-05:00

We spent most of Friday cruising towards home -

we just had one more stop

at Victoria, British Columbia.

This stop was to satisfy some law about docking

at a foreign port since we had been in foreign waters.

There were quite a few other ships headed our way -

it reminded me of a child's story about

boats or trains racing to the finish line.

Around 7PM we were docked.

Neither Steve nor I had ever been to Canada before.

This was our shortest stop yet since we only had

about 4 hours to tour the town.

Victoria is known for its Burchart Gardens,

touring its pubs and docks,

tea at the Empress

But we chose a tour of the Craigdarroch Castle.

It was completed in 1890 by coal baron Robert Dunmuir

who I don't think ever even got to actually live there.

His wife and children lived there until 1908.

Then it was used for a Military Hospital,

Victoria College, Victoria Conservatory of Music, and finally

Craigdarroch Castle Historic House Museum.

It is four floors of beautiful stained glass and intricate woodwork.

This was their view from the top tower of the house.

As you can see - our time was running out.

They only gave us an hour to tour the house but we

could have spent a great deal more time there.

The rest of our tour around town,

although interesting, was mostly in the dark.

Thus, pictures were not so great. (See Empress above)

This is one place Steve and I would both like to visit again

when we have more than a few hours.

We got back on board and cruised through the night.

I woke up around 6Am to this view of Seattle

Time to go home.

Ketchikan

2010-09-13T17:23:00.006-05:00

I woke up Thursday morning and knew

by the noises that we were docking.

I slid open our glass door to see what

Ketchikan looked like and heard a loud splash.

My first thought was that someone had thrown

something overboard - a big NO-NO!

But when I stepped out on the deck

I heard more splashes.

It took me a few minutes to wake up and

realize that the salmon were jumping -

but it's hard to get a good picture of them.

When I saw this:

I thought that Ketchikan must be really small -

but the town was on the other side of the ship.

However, I enjoyed watching the fishing and tour

boats come and go.

And it was neat to watch the water planes

(or whatever they're called)

landing and taking off.

We wandered over to the town side of the boat

and Ketchikan is a small fishing/tourist town

but kinda quaint.

We were only going to be docked for the morning

so we headed out to see the town.

We took a tour on one of these horse drawn trolleys.

One of those 'quaint' things about the town were

these 'street' stairs. These are considered actual

streets and if you live on one you have

to park and walk the rest of the way -

just think about moving furniture or carting

toddlers and groceries - especially

in this town that has record rainfalls.

Ketchikan is also known for it's numerous

totem poles. I had always thought totem poles

were a religious symbol but they are really stories.

People also give totem poles as special birthday

or anniversary presents, for special honors, and

they even have some if you've been dishonorable.

This creek is one of the main salmon ladders.

They said that when they are at the top of the season

a small person can walk across this creek

without getting their feet wet.

Another totem pole.

Ready to get back on board.

Later in the day as we were headed towards Victoria.

Glacier Bay

2010-09-09T15:15:00.005-05:00

We said goodbye to Skagway around 7:30 pm

and enjoyed the view until it was too dark to see much.

Around 6 am we picked up the required

National Park Rangers that

would give us direction and commentary

throughout our stay in Glacier Bay.

Below is the glacier that our boat was allowed to

stop and visit for an extended period of time -

probably about an hour.

We were on the Starboard side so our 1st view

doesn't look like much - but that dirty ice

looking stuff to the bottom left is part of the glacier.

To better understand it's size - there are 2 men walking around

on the shore just to the right of the glacier

and there are 5 tents on the far right side of the picture.

After about half an hour the boat turned

and we had this view of the glacier.

We sat there and waited to see if we would

get to see it calving. Steve thought it was like

watching ice melt - isn't he funny.

We did see some parts fall and it was amazing

at the 'crashing' noise such a little bit would make.

And we often heard loud crashes within

the glacier that we couldn't see.

We cruised by several other glaciers as we

wandered through the bay.

On our way out of the bay we started

seeing a lot more wildlife.

We saw a humpback whale crest

but I was too much in awe to snap a picture.

But we saw lots and lots of whales (orca and humpback)

sea lions, sea otters, and eagles.

The rangers got on and off the boat by climbing

down a ladder to this smaller boat.

The end of the day brought some beautiful horizons

and we continued to see whales for quite awhile.

Day 5 - Skagway, Alaska

2010-09-04T11:13:00.009-05:00

We awoke Tuesday morning to the sounds of

men shouting and motors grinding as

we docked into the Skagway port.

One of the many other cruise ships that

followed the same route as us

was coming in behind us.

We had a gorgeous cool and sunny day.

The town was about 1/4 mile from the dock

but we really enjoyed the view before we

even left the boat.

Skagway was a railroad town and port of call

back in the day of rail travel and the rail trips

were the main attraction here.

It sounded like a neat tour up to the

Klondike Highway and the

Yukon Suspension Bridge.

But it was an all day trip and that suspension bridge

thing made Steve a little nervous.

We had some time before our tour so we walked into town

and enjoyed the view along the way.

Skagway is a little town -

only 800 when the cruise ship season is over.

They have one school from Kg - 12th grade

with 9 teachers and 76 students.

The Red Onion Saloon is known for

its 'spoiled doves' historical reputation.

Our first tour took us on a scenic drive up over the town.

The mountain here was Harding Mt. and they said

it was named after President Harding who was the only

U.S President to visit Skagway.

He complained constantly of being cold and then

promptly returned home and died of pneumonia -

at least that's what they said.

We did see an airplane arrive at their 'airport'.

The tour then took us to a museum - a very good one actually.

They had a lot of artifacts from the miners and

we could have spent more time there.

We also went to a Sculpture Garden - this was the only

sculpture I found interesting but they had enlarged photos

with a miner's notes about their lives -

it looked like an awful life.

They said only a small percent actually made

and KEPT their earnings of gold -

some guy named Nordstrum was one of them.

Most was spent on prostitutes, staying alive

or swindled away from them.

The tour we took of the Red Onion was led by this 'madame'

The was NOT Steve's favorite tour - he didn't like her silliness.

The history she told though was pretty sad -

some of it downright criminal which was

a large problem Skagway had.

Here in St. Louis we have our Jesse James

there they have Soapy Smith.

We enjoyed Skagway for it's scenery

but it's not a place I'd want to live.

Day 4 - Juneau, Alaska

2010-09-02T13:11:00.008-05:00

I woke up at 6AM Monday morning

to do some whale watching.

There were some but not as many this morning.

They were probably sleeping in I guess.

We arrived in Juneau in wet drizzly weather.

But in Alaska rain doesn't stop any activities

except maybe helicopter rides.

Our first shore excursion was a tour of the town

where they took us down "THE" highway to

"THE" bridge and over to Douglas Island

to a lookout where we could see

Juneau from across the way.

Then we returned to town

where we went up this tram to take a hike.

We saw several eagles

but this is the only one I got a picture of -

probably because he was caged.

He had an injured eye and they

couldn't let him go free

for his own safety.

The hike was fun - although wet and muddy.

Our guide was often tramping into the

woods to bring us back various berries to try.

This 'other' cruise ship is actually

anchored in the middle of the water.

Their passengers had to be ferried

back and forth to the ship.

Another view of our tram ride.

This is the only bear we actually saw. :)

But we were always on the lookout.

Later that afternoon we took another

shore excursion to

Mendenhall Glacier.

It's hard to realize the size of the glacier.

I know it doesn't look so big but

besides the people in the middle of the picture,

there are people standing just

to the right of the glacier

that are difficult to pick out.

This is the lichen that grows as the glacier recedes.

It fertilizes the ground.

The flower is poisonous but I've forgotten it's name.

Also at the glacier there was a trail which

we only had time to go

a short way on or get left by the bus.

There was a mother and baby bear in the area

coming down to the water for dinner

(the stream was full of salmon)

but we never caught sight of them.

Day 2 & 3

2010-09-01T12:00:00.005-05:00

We began our Saturday early with breakfast at

Denny's across from the hotel.

We spent the meal being entertained by

a waitress who told you like it is.

"How's your food? Don't tell me cause I don't really care."

type comments.

But we also met another couple who was

boarding the same ship we were.

We continued to 'run into' Paul & Jan on

a daily basis throughout the cruise.

After being escorted from the hotel

we finally went through the process of

boarding the ship.

Almost like an airplane but the people

were much friendlier.

The Princess Golden

This is Kevin & Ron (son and 8? year old father ),

our tablemates throughout the cruise.

There were 2 more seats but that couple

never turned up.

They were very nice and interesting people to get to know.

We saw them around often - but of course,

Kevin is pretty easy to pick out.

Our room with a view - YEAH!

Up on deck as we prepare to depart.

The crowds prepare to say Bon Voyage.

See you next week Seattle.

We spent the rest of Saturday and all day Sunday at sea.

We spent the time walking around the boat,

going to shows and lectures, and of course eating.

I spent a lot of time just sitting on the deck watching

the world go by.

We did see some sea animals.

They told us to watch for these spurts of spray

because a whale would be surfacing right after.

They were however, rather difficult for a

slow photographer like me to catch.

I got lots of tails though. :)

Sometimes the total lack of color just amazed me.

I'm sure there's a scientific reason for the black and white

but I've no idea what it is so I just enjoyed the novelty.

We searched the shores for wildlife but mostly

just saw awesome scenery on our way to Juneau.

I really liked the fact that we were almost always

in sight of land - I'd make a lousy sailor.

Day 1

2010-08-30T18:24:00.006-05:00

We were instructed to arrive in Seattle a day early so we wouldn't miss the boat. Apparently there was one couple who didn't receive the same advice because we heard they were on the dock with their suitcases waving frantically to the boat as we pulled away. I don't know how often that happens or what happened to that couple but I know we didn't go back for them.

So we had a free afternoon in Seattle and since we had been to the Space Needle and the Fish Market on a previous visit we decided to check out Pioneer Square. We met a couple on the metro on the way there who encouraged us to check out Smith Tower. They said it was a great view and much cheaper than the Space Needle.

We were glad we did as they suggested.

Smith Tower - opened on July 4, 1914.

At the time it was the 4th tallest building in the world.

The brass Otis Elevators are still operated

by an elevator operator.

The Observation Deck is on the 35th floor off the Chinese Room which contained furniture and these beautiful ceiling tiles that were gifts from the Empress of China.

We had a nice day to see the town of Seattle.

Way back in the distance we could see our cruise ships.

A zoomed in view of the ships.

We had our view of the Space Needle.

The mountains in the background were a little cloud covered and

I couldn't tell you if that's Mt. Rainier or not.

We then went on over to Pioneer Square and

took an Underground Tour of the area.

The history of the underground town was a neat story

about how the area was repeatedly flooded out and

they built up the present town over the old town.

I didn't take any pictures though because it was mostly just

old concrete buildings, junk, ghosts, and rats.

But the square was lively and we enjoyed doing some people watching.

We were surprised how tired we were -

until we remembered we had gotten up at 3AM

and had a 2 hour time change.

So we headed back to the metro/hotel and

had dinner and crashed early.

Last of the 20's

2010-08-16T21:38:00.002-05:00

I asked Stevie to order his cake

for us to pick up and

this is what he had them put on it.

He has always had a great sense of humor.

And a beautiful smile to go with that humor -

which also helped him get out of trouble

on numerous occasions.

This will be the last year I can say I have

children in their late 20's -

although watching him tease Coen

it's nice to know my kids

are always going to be young at heart.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY

STEVIE -

LOVE YOU ALWAYS

AND FOREVER!

Ayden's Ballerina Party

2010-07-31T20:56:00.003-05:00

Ayden turned 3 years old last week so we got to celebrate tonight

in ballerina style.

All the little girls had on their tutu's - even Hadley had tutu ruffles.

Gracie thought tutu's were a marvelous idea.

Coen wasn't really into the ballerina theme.

Nor was Spencer.

Somehow Jackson escaped my camera but he was all boy

and no tutu as well.

Ayden blowing out her candles.

And then the yummy part of eating cupcakes -

the only thing maybe better was

opening all her presents -

and guess what she got a lot of - tutus!

Jessie loved that because that's all Ayden wants to wear these days.

Happy Birthday Ayden - love you!

2010-07-28T11:35:00.000-05:00

I'm tired of summer heat - I'm ready for Fall!

Jen's Birthday

2010-07-07T14:20:00.002-05:00

I messed up the pictures of Jen's birthday celebration

this year because I had been playing with the settings

of my camera and didn't think to check and reset them.

I have some artsy pics- but not what I was looking for.

Therefore, we have pics of Jen from old birthdays

This (in honor of Hadley) is Jen's 1st Birthday.

This (in honor of Coen) is Jen's 3rd Birthday.

And this (in honor of Spencer) is Jen's 7th Birthday -

I know he's only 6 but he's so anxious to be 7!

OK - the truth is her 6th birthday didn't have very good pics.

And this is just for fun because we were telling Spencer about her

Umbrella Hat.

Her actual birthday is not for a few more days -

maybe I'll remember to get a current picture.

Happy Birthday

to my favorite oldest daughter

Love you always Jenny!

61!

2010-06-06T13:02:00.002-05:00

The family was all here last night to help

Steve celebrate his 61st Birthday.

Somehow I neglected to get many pictures but

this is Jackson watching Popo

try to blow out his candle.

Happy Birthday Steve!

Becky & Karl's Birthday

2010-05-16T15:08:00.006-05:00

For all of those who read Jen & Becky's blogs -

most of these pictures will look pretty familiar -

we all seem to point our cameras in the same direction - but

Happy Belated Birthday Becky

and Happy Early Birthday Karl

Nate - notice how they each blow out their own candle :)

(you know I'm teasing!)

I'm not sure if Nate is crooked or it's the picture?

Karl getting some help opening his presents.

Gracie Girl being silly.

Big smile from Ayden.

Sweet little Hadley.

Jax stood still for a split second for me-love those cheeks.

Spencer being his sweet self and growing too fast.

Gracie in her pig tails.

Coen either pulling shoes off or putting them on -

Jen says he's into changing clothes constantly these days.

Stevie with his sweet little girl.

GG Neal and GG Haupt

Steve watching the kids have fun.

Hadley and sisters Jen & Becky.

We had fun but missed Jessie who was off on a business trip.

Happy Birthday kids - love all you guys!!

Easter 2010

2010-04-04T17:24:00.003-05:00

He Did It Again

2010-03-13T20:47:00.003-06:00

I don't normally like to put pictures

of myself on here but Nate always makes me laugh.

We get to share our birthday celebration

and he again managed to blow out both our

candles before I could react at all.

Happy Birthday Nate

and thanks dear family for a fun birthday party.

Coen's 3rd Birthday

2010-03-01T15:37:00.004-06:00

Coen is officially 3 -

I'm not sure why he's covering up his "3" Badge

Coen blowing out his candles.

The family of 5.

and sometimes 6

(Gracie feels right at home here)

Hadley giving GG big smiles.

Cousin Ayden

Big brother Spencer

Cousin Jackson (Jax)

Cousin Gracie

Poor Popo had to miss the fun - but he got some cake.

The kids all had fun even though

they mostly still play next to each other.

I can hardly wait to see the chaos when

they are old enough to gang up together.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY COEN

We LOVE YOU!!

The Times Are A'Changing

2010-02-22T11:57:00.004-06:00

Just looked at the calendar and realized that Mama would have turned 91 tomorrow if she were still with us. Hard to believe she's been gone 20 years.

Then I started thinking about all the differences since the day she was born in 1919,

For example:

*My grandchildren are delivered in a hospital and must have a proper car seat before they can be released. They come home to a life of cell phones, computers, HD color television with 100+ stations, music on CD's or ipods, movies on demand on TV, and dishwashers or even paper plates.

*My kids were delivered in a hospital but we were required to hold our baby for the ride home - no car seats until they were toddlers. We had a house phone maybe with an answering machine, the only computers were room size for businesses, color television with 5 stations, music on radio or tapes, movies on VHS, and dishwashers.

*I was delivered in a hospital (although my older siblings were not), brought home in a car - I'm sure there were no car seats because there weren't even any seat belts. We had a house phone with a party line, never heard of a computer. I'm not sure when we got a TV but it was a very small black and white with just a few stations. Music was records and radio, movies at the theater, and dishes were washed by hand in the kitchen sink.

*I'm not sure about all this but it's most likely: When mom was delivered it was probably at home by a doctor or midwife. They may have had a car but more likely they didn't. It's possible they didn't even have electricity but I'm sure they didn't have television or computers. They probably didn't have a phone in their home and their music was what they made with instruments and voice. The only movies back then were like Laurel and Hardy or Charle Chaplin and I doubt they got to see many if any. And the dished got washed by going out back and hauling in water from the pump.

I have to wonder what it will be like when my great-grandchildren are born??

6 Years Already

2010-02-09T14:18:00.003-06:00

Seems like he should still be just a baby

but he's growing so fast.

It was a busy but fun birthday weekend.

Hope you had a great birthday sweet Spencer!!

Love you!!

Happy Early Birthday GG & Jessie

2010-01-29T08:48:00.002-06:00

We celebrated Millie (GG) and Jessie's birthday's last night

but one of the birthday girls had to stay home with a sick baby Jackson.

The kids had fun getting together and we got a group shot

but Diego had to fill in for Jackson.

Happy Birthday Millie and Happy Early Birthday Jessie!

Christmas Eve 2009

2009-12-25T07:50:00.005-06:00

Hadley & her momma

Coen's version of pool.

Gracie's version of pool.

Spencer, the ping pong champ.

Coen & Gracie just hanging out with Santa.

Coen posing with Santa.

Gracie posing with Santa.

Nate posing with Santa.

Say 'cheese'.

Becky & Gracie

Karl being silly.

Sweet Spencer.

MERRY CHRISTMAS TO ALL.

Are You Old Enough To Remember...

2009-12-21T14:56:00.003-06:00

Tinsel -

I know some of you (but probably very few) actually still buy real Christmas trees - but do they still sell tinsel? Since I never look for it anymore I'm not sure. That was such a combination of fun and torture to get the whole box strung up on the tree. You start out putting on one strand at a time trying to make it pretty until it gets so tedious you just start tossing it by the handfuls. And although it managed to get carried all through the house during the holidays I don't think it was as bad as the glitter we deal with today.

Twice A Day Mail Delivery -

At least the week before Christmas I can remember the mailman delivering our mail twice a day - once in the morning and the second was usually after dark. The volume of Christmas cards back then was amazing. And yet, our mailman at least, was always so cheerful.

Carolers-

I know there are carolers still - but they are usually in the mall or at the nursing homes. I can remember when we'd get all excited to hear them coming down the block and we'd hurry to turn on our porch light and open the door so they would stop outside our house. It was usually the youngest who had the honor of depositing a few coins in their can - reminds me of the blind man too who walked the streets in the summer playing his music.

Head Scarves -

Ok - I know this is a strange memory but it comes from a conversation I had with my sister. I don't believe I even own one anymore but I can remember when 'put on your headscarf' was a constant reminder from my momma. I'm not sure when they finally went out of style but I don't remember my children ever wearing one. And in case you need a little chuckle to help you through the holiday crunch:

Oh yeah - wasn't I cute - ha ha

There are so many more 'moments' that I can't think of right now

- feel free to add to my short list.

Most of all -

HAVE A WONDERFUL CHRISTMAS

AND HAPPY NEW YEAR!!

Boys and their Toys

2009-11-28T19:29:00.003-06:00

Steve came home a few weeks before Thanksgiving

claiming he had bought this Mario racetrack

for when the kids come over to play.

OK - I could buy that.

Then the week of Thanksgiving he has 'snuck in'

a Polar Express Train set - claiming it's also for the kids.

Maybe I could buy that.

But then today he makes another trip to

the hobby shop to 'add' to his train set.

Is it just me or does it sound like he has

started a new hobby that he doesn't want to fess up to?

2009 Thanksgiving

2009-11-27T13:27:00.004-06:00

I've learned that you never know what's going to happen

this time next year - or in the years following.

When Steve and I first got married I volunteered to

take over Thanksgiving for my sister

(she did Christmas)

and since we invited all my side of the family and

all of Steve's side of the family - plus

friends and their families-

we always had anywhere from 30 and up to 50 guests.

This year we had 8

and that's counting Hadley.

Only one table to set.

I think we all had a good time.

Plenty of food and time to play and relax.

I know Spencer & Coen had fun with Popo's new toys

& Jen & Karl enjoyed Popo entertaining the boys for awhile.

Even though I enjoy 'traditions' - I'm not afraid of change

and I know it's just part of life and growing up.

OK -actually I know I'm too old to host one of

those huge feasts anymore so a little change is good!

But of course - I'm always hoping all my kids

will join us one of these times - maybe Christmas?

Happy Belated Birthday Gracie

2009-11-22T13:49:00.002-06:00

Sweet Gracie Girl had a family birthday party last night

minus a big chunk of the family.

She woke up from her nap with a bark and a sniffle

so the cousins were warned away.

But that's ok - they were all at her kid party

last week on her real birthday.

The family party was Grace and her 'adult' family

and we had a great time celebrating with the birthday girl.

She has mastered the art of blowing out those candles!

As I watched her 'sample' the plastic food for her shopping cart -

I was thinking it's probably a good thing the cousins were not there

to help her taste each item.

She wasn't so under the weather that she couldn't tease Nana.

I asked for a smile and she gave me her silly face instead.

Happy 2nd Birthday Sweet Gracie Girl

and hope you feel all better real soon!

I love you so much!

Lucky 13

2009-11-16T14:07:00.002-06:00

I know I'm a little behind here but I've been busy.

Hadley Elizabeth

born November 13

at 3:13 pm

and even though they weighed her at 6 lbs. 14 oz.

I'm thinking their scale was off by an ounce

and it was probably 13 oz. :)

She is beautiful and the boys are delighted with her -

they want so much to "help"

take care of her.

Mommy & Daddy are terribly 'sleep deprived'

but doing great in spite of it.

She is our 6th grandchild - third granddaughter.

Our lives overflow with God's Blessings

and we are loving every minute of it!

Watching them Fall

2009-11-04T13:06:00.003-06:00

"Everyone must take time to sit and watch the leaves turn."

Elizabeth Lawrence

"The acoustics of this season are different and all sounds,

no matter how hushed,

are as crisp as autumn air."

Eric Sloane

"Every leaf speaks bliss to me,

Fluttering from the autumn tree."

Emily Bronte

HAPPY AUTUMN AND FALLING LEAVES!!

Happy Halloween

2009-10-28T16:34:00.004-05:00

Halloween has changed since I was a kid.

I don't believe that there were ever any pictures of me in costume taken -

but it doesn't matter because I always just put on

dad's old clothes and went as a bum -

and I still got just as much candy as anyone else.

Also, my parents use to have over 100 kids come each year.

When they ran out of candy they turned out the lights

and retreated to the back of the house.

We're lucky if we have a dozen kids at our house.

I remember when we would get stuff like homemade popcorn balls,

bags of popcorn and candy apples from the neighbors.

You'd never get away with that stuff these days.

Hard to believe that these pictures were taken just last year -

they have all grown so much since then!

We didn't use to buy all the fancy costumes for our kids -

they were either homemade or those cheap

all in one boxes with a one piece costume and a mask.

But they were still cute and got plenty of candy.

Looks like we may have nicer weather by this weekend -

I hope everyone has a safe and Happy Halloween!

Jackson is 1!

2009-09-19T21:44:00.003-05:00

We celebrated Jackson's 1st Birthday tonite

with presents, pizza and, of course, cake.

As most kids - he thought the tissue paper was pretty neat -

But he was mostly into this big yellow truck Jessie's parents had gotten him.

In fact, big sister Ayden had to step in and finish opening his presents for him.

Every boy needs a truck and he was very focused on his - so cute.

However, he was so focused, even after about 9 tries,

I still could not get him to look up for a picture

And the cake - well - he wasn't too sure about all that - but it was all very good.

Hard to believe he could be 1 already!

Happy Birthday sweet Jackson - We love you!

How Quickly They Grow!

2009-09-11T14:39:00.004-05:00

Spencer wanted to come for an "Overnite"

and last night worked best for all concerned.

He hasn't spent the night here by himself

since he was 2 and Jen & Karl had a wedding in KC.

I think he had a good time but it reminded me

of how much he has grown in 3 years.

This is Spencer now

( in our 1st of 5 or 6 sleeping arrangement choices)

He still likes to have his 'guys' but

he doesn't want them in bed with him now.

This is Spencer at 2 with his monkey & horse "guys"

Spencer now allowed to eat breakfast in the den

preferred the cinnamon toast -

powdered donuts were not a top choice anymore.

Spencer at 2 when powdered donuts were 'yummy!"

Spencer has always been a really good kid and we enjoyed his visit.

But it's funny how it's almost easier now

when he can tell you what he wants or needs -

and yet, sometimes it was easier

when he was 2 and I could tell him what he wants and needs.

"Children's children are a crown to the aged."

Proverbs 17:6

Quiz and a Quote

2009-09-07T14:04:00.002-05:00

QUIZ - Who can tell me where this picture was taken?

I doubt if many will know but a few will.

I took it during a 'calm' and it

made me feel happy and peaceful.

I LOVE AUTUMN!!

This picture also makes me think of the peaceful times

I've spent on front/ back porches.

Therefore - a QUOTE:

"The best kind of friend

is the one you could sit on a porch with,

never saying a word,

and walk away feeling like

that was the best conversation you've had."

Unknown

Stevie is 28 Tomorrow!

2009-08-16T17:13:00.002-05:00

My baby boy is having another birthday-

and even after 28 years he's still getting away

with everything with that "who me?" smile.

It's hard to resist - he's still so cute!

This is Stevie when he was 2 -

This is Ayden and Jessie and Ayden is 2.

I'm sure someday we'll see some

Stevie in her but you can't deny that

she looks just like her mom -

such big beautiful eyes.

This is Stevie when he was 1.

Jackson is not quite 1 but he's close.

He has a lot of his mommy in

his looks too -but there are moments

when I get a glimpse of Stevie-

especially when he smiles.

Stevie - Have a wonderful and

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!

LOVE YOU ALWAYS

Anniversary Time

2009-08-03T21:08:00.003-05:00

The last 3 years we have celebrated our anniversary with

David & Vicki and it's a tradition I hope

we continue for many more years.

They are at 35 years and we are 37.

Had a great dinner at Sam's Steakhouse -

even though the guys were disappointed there

was no Beer Cheese Soup.

Happy Anniversary to all!

20 Years Wait - for This?

2009-07-30T17:03:00.003-05:00

About 20 years ago we took the kids down to Branson and on Steve's list of things to do (and anyone who has been on a trip with Steve knows there's a list) was to see the Shoji Tabuchi show.

However, this was his 'last day' event on the list and by that time the kids (who were about 13, 9, and almost 8) had come to the end of their limit with his 'shows to see'.

We ended up going home instead.

Years later there were at least a couple of times when he tried to get us in to see the show but either it didn't fit the plans or Shoji was on his own vacation.

THIS WAS THE YEAR!

I almost couldn't believe it when at intermission he turned to me and said, "This is awful - let's leave." The irony was too much so I made him let me take his picture by the Shoji sign. But at least we got to see the 'famous' bathrooms - they were quite impressive.

Other than that show we had a good time and did several things we had never done in Branson before. We took the Branson Scenic Train Tour, went to the Dixie Stampede, saw SIX, The 60's Show, and Red Skelton show - all which was pretty good. We of course went to Mel's Hard Luck Cafe and stopped in to see Liz (Mel was working at home) and we went down to the Landing where we ran into Jonathas who told us to go eat at Shorty Small's (I think that was the name) - anyway it was yummy!

Now we're back home and trying to get the house back together after having the wood floors finished -which is why we left town in the first place.

Lucky for us none of the local thieves knew that the floor people had left our front door unlocked :).

Ayden is 'almost' 2!

2009-07-25T14:06:00.004-05:00

We celebrated Ayden's 2nd birthday today

(it's just a few days early)

and had lots of fun and good food.

Here is the birthday girl sporting her pretty "2" dress and

enjoying her peanut butter & jelly sandwich.

Mommy & Daddy helping get all those presents open.

And somehow cupcakes taste better when daddy feeds it to you.

Brother Jackson found something that made him grin.

Cousin Spencer checking out the toys.

Cousin Gracie showing her mommy how to party.

And cousin Coen trying his best to keep the party lively.

Ayden is kinda like her Nana - she prefers "low-key" parties.

She got a little overwhelmed by all the people and

activity a few times but I know she'll enjoy all her new toys

and I hope she had fun. I think the whole family is probably

taking a nap right about now - good idea!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY SWEET AYDEN!!!

Things are Improving

2009-07-17T17:12:00.002-05:00

I have walls now - YEAH! Now if I could just get rid of all the pesky flys that have snuck in - I guess I should be grateful there are no birds of creepy critters.

uh-oh

2009-07-14T14:45:00.002-05:00

We are doing a little work on the house - just pushing the garage wall a little further into the garage to make the dining room slightly larger. I came home to find the outdoors inside. These pictures were taken from my kitchen - there is no wall at all right now - I'm trying to not be too concerned about heat, bugs, and animals entering my home - but I kinda am.

Jen's Birthday Party

2009-07-12T16:25:00.002-05:00

The Reijgers, Kelleys, and 3 Haupt families were there - I just didn't remember to take very many pictures. At least I got some of the birthday girl - hope it was a good birthday for you Jenny - love you!!

Birthday Girl Jenny

2009-07-09T13:52:00.004-05:00

Tomorrow is Jenny's birthday. I was remembering the Saturday she was born - I had a doctor appointment and I got side-swiped on my way. The guy took off and there was no real damage so I just went on but when I got to the doctor's office and was telling the nurse I was overcome with emotion and burst into tears. Even though the doctor was sure I was just upset and my mild contractions were premature by a week or so - our little girl arrived that evening. A wonderful surprise!

This was her 3rd birthday - she likes to party!

She was around 7 or 8 in this picture getting help from

her siblings -and Aunt Denise and Grandma McCoy.

My poor children have gone through life being told they are obviously my children.

And I have to admit I've seen some pictures where I have to agree. This is me with the kids when I was Jenny's age now- I think the kids are my children with some major improvements. Every time I look at Stevie though, I think I see Coen. Which is really weird because older pictures of Stevie remind me of my brother Jimmy.

ANYWAY -

Jenny - you've grown into a beautiful young woman.

(I'll post the birthday pictures a few days after the party)

You are a wonderful wife, mother, and loving daughter.

I wish for you every happiness and always love!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!

Death Among Us

2009-06-28T15:50:00.003-05:00

The news has been filled lately with death - Ed McMahon, Farrah Fawcett, Michael Jackson, and today I saw that Bill Mays (commercial guy) had died. The saddest part is that most of them were so young.

Well, for those of you who remember where the McKnight Road Variety Shows started - The White House - there is another death to report. You will probably remember Freddie White who owned the hall at that time and contributed to our show with his version of Danny Boy. Freddie was younger than me so he was too young but his health had been declining for years. This picture is about 30 years old at least and Freddie is top man, Steve is in the middle and George is in the front.

Weeds?

2009-06-12T09:06:00.003-05:00

This is for you Stevie -

Dad told me you asked why we were growing weeds

around our tree.

(I admit they were looking a little wild and weedy)

But we are seeing the flowers now. I planted these seeds last year

and Steve chopped them all down because he assumed they were weeds.

Steve is our gardner since I can't tolerate the heat or the bugs and

he doesa good job of keeping the yard looking nice -

so I'm not surprised he thought he was just cleaning up.

But I asked him to leave these alone for awhile to see

if they would bloom.I don't even remember what they are -

and I'd rather the ground cover take over -

but at least it's not bare dirt for a change.

Big 60!

2009-06-04T14:28:00.004-05:00

Guess who this was just sixty years ago!

I don't know how old -but cousin Dave and Steve.

Cowboy/Pirates maybe?

Just 40 years ago.

The new Sixty - with hair -

or without.

HAPPY 60th BIRTHDAY STEVE!

On the Other Side of MO

2009-05-25T10:18:00.007-05:00

A few years ago my long-time high school friend, Pam, moved back to St. Louis after living in the small town of Richmond, MO.

It's great having her in town so we can get together more often but I have to admit that I truly enjoyed crossing the state to spend a weekend with her about twice a year while she was living there.

Below is the view from her screened in back porch - I probably could have just sat out there all weekend and been happy but she had a lot of great places to show me in that area.

To get to her home I spent about an hour on a little 2-lane country road which took you through some quaint little towns, most of which were loaded with Civil War history. Higginsville was one of the towns but I never did stop there - however, Lexington was closer to her and we visited there a few times.

Below is the 'Lexington Bridge" - it is rated one of the worse in Missouri. It is a very narrow 2-lane bridge and you can see the river through holes in the bridge. I always prayed to get over the bridge without having to give way to one of the 18 wheelers that were often crossing there. I always asked her before I left St. Louis if the bridge was still standing or not - I'm not sure how far out of the way you have to go if it ever falls down.

But Lexington itself was adorable. We once went on a house tour to see houses like the one below that were from the Civil War era.

And below is the Town Hall where, if you look closely, you can see the cannon ball still in the column of the porch.

Most often we would go to Kansas City on Saturday where she could do any major shopping she needed done but she usually had some 'sight seeing' for us to do along the way. We would just hit the highlights but I know for someone with free time there are a lot of little museums, etc to be explored.

We went to Liberty (Jesse James), Fort Osage, Watkins Woolen Mill State Historical Site, St. Joseph (Pony Express), Arrow Rock, Jamesport (Amish), Independence, and several other places I can't even remember.

We often went through Excelsior Springs and we had breakfast once at The Elms (below) where Al Capone, Truman, and FDR would come to stay sometimes.

One of my favorite little towns was Weston. Although there was a lot of history we usually just hit the little shops.

Below is one of my favorite settings of the church which overlooks the town.

Strangely enough, we never did any sight seeing in Kansas City - just shopping or a movie.

This past weekend her youngest son got married in KC so Steve and I went and did some sight seeing. If you've ever been on a trip with Steve - it's go-go- and go! We saw 5 museums in 3 1/2 hours!

On Thursday we saw a Royals game but Friday we went to the WWI museum, Federal Reserve museum, Hallmark tour, Black Negro baseball league museum, and the Jazz Museum.

That night was the wedding and Saturday we headed home but stopped in Independence to see the Truman home and the 30-room mansion below which was built for the sole reason to show off the man's wealth - it had a very interesting history. As Steve says, it kinda reminds you of the Munster's house.

The Vaile Mansion

Truman Home

Me, Pam, and her sister Dana at the wedding reception which was in a 3-story mansion - very nice!

Steve agreed to play music for the guests as they arrived from the wedding to fill in the time while they were taking pictures.

WWI Museum

The Royals Stadium - Steve was very impressed with their scoreboard so I thought I'd throw in a shot for any one interested.

Well, I enjoy traveling but I'm happy to be home on busy holiday weekends.

I hope everyone has a fun and safe Memorial Day!

Party Night

2009-05-19T07:10:00.005-05:00

Birthday girl Becky

Birthday boy Karl

Coen

Ayden

Spencer and Popo

Gracie

Jackson

Last night we were able to get everybody together for a joint birthday party for Becky and Karl. It's becoming a joke trying to get everyone around the dining room table but the kids are still too young to send to the kitchen table - but we manage.

I had a good time just watching the kids. The girls (Gracie and Ayden) are still a little overwhelmed by the rowdy boys (mostly Popo, Stevie, Karl, and Nate) but they are getting use to it. Baby Jackson sat in the middle of it all and seemed to think it was a great time.

Happy after-birthday Becky and Happy early-birthday Karl!!

May 14

2009-05-14T08:35:00.004-05:00

My calendar today says "Becky's birthday"

and "Spencer's graduation"

Wow - how quickly time is passing.

Now Becky is all grown up and the wonderful mommy to

our Gracie girl (Get Well Gracie!)

But once she was my little girl

and I was her mommy

-well, actually she is still my little girl

and I am still her mom

- but you know what I mean!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY BECKY - LOVE YOU!!

And it's unbelievable that

Spencer is old enough to be graduating Pre-K

and getting all ready for Kindergarten.

Congratulations Sweet Spencer - LOVE YOU!!

(And now Coen is sick too - Get Well Coen!!)

And as long as I was finally updating my blog,

I figured I'd throw in a few photos from the

weekend 50th anniversary party -

It was fun seeing everyone -

Love and Congrats again to Ed and my favorite sister!

A Lot Can Happen in 10 Years

2009-05-02T14:56:00.004-05:00

The last ten years almost seems like only a few months ago.

1999 - I had 3 children still living at home and

one still had another year of high school.

My baby boy before he started shaving his head. Even he hadn't met Jessie yet.

Nate and Becky (at Aaron & Miranda's wedding)

We had some strong suspicions they might get married someday.

Karl & Jenny - I believe this picture was taken when we were first getting to know Karl - this may have even been our first introduction.

But here it is just 10 years later -

2009 and we have 3 married children and 5 (soon to be 6) grandchildren.

What I don't understand is - how come I have aged 10 years but my kids (except for Stevie's shaved head) all look about the same?

Tagged by Kathryn

2009-04-25T08:37:00.003-05:00

8 Things I'm Looking Forward To:

My morning coffee

Any visits with my grandkids

New grandbaby in November

Joe & Sandi coming for a visit

The T's 50th Anniversary Party

KC trip

Finally finishing Mists of Avalon so I can move on to something new

Autumn - (not a big fan of summer)

8 Things I Did Yesterday

Manicure

Talked to Spencer & Coen on the phone

Schnucks

Hardward Store

Laundry

Dinner out

The Impossible Easter photo

2009-04-12T15:40:00.005-05:00

I had forgotten how difficult it was to get a good family Easter photo. I can remember promising almost anything to just get all three of mine to sit still for a few moments so we could snap a picture.

Well, kids haven't changed any. At least now we have digital so you don't feel like you've wasted a bunch of film. You wouldn't believe how many pictures I have of my furniture and floor because the child in my viewer disappeared before I could snap the button.

We tried to get all 5 to sit on the couch for a group shot. Talk about fun :) - we did manage to herd them all into the same room but we could not get them to sit on the couch together - someone was always taking off.

Here's the best I could get - but I'm sure my kids got much better pictures that they will share with Nana & Popo.

This is truly the only shot I have of Coen -

this child is forever in constant motion.

Jackson is the only cooperative one -

but of course he is just beginning to become mobile.

Even Spencer hates to pose for pictures - he use to be easier to catch.

Ayden can almost be convinced if she's being held but you have to be quick.

I managed to sneak this one of Grace while her mommy was distracting her.

If you want to see what most of my pictures look like - below are some of the better ones - I think I had to delete more than I saved because it was just furniture or part of an arm or leg. It's really kinda funny because they know why you're calling their name so they just totally ignore you or refuse to look at you - sweet little stinkers - they're still adorable cuties.

Neotez Past

2009-03-28T11:00:00.008-05:00

Last night we went to the Neotez dinner and I was reminded of

some of my favorite photo memories.

The Old Man, the Boy, and the Mule

2009-03-25T14:37:00.003-05:00

The other day someone was talking about the problem they were having trying to please several different people at the same time. I was tempted to tell them this story that my mother told me when I was trying to please everyone while planning my wedding.

I can remember exactly where we were - I had just driven us home from Kroger's and we were parked in the car across from our house. We just sat there in the car while she shared this little nugget of wisdom.

You've probably heard it before but sometimes it's good to hear again and remember to accept that you just can't please everyone!

There was once an old man, a young boy, and a mule going on a long journey. As they started out the old man placed the young boy on the mule and he walked along with them. The first town they came to all the people watching them clucked their tongues and said,

"Why is the old man walking while the young boy gets to ride?"

So they switched places and the old man rode while the boy walked. The second town they came to all the people watching them frowned and said

"Why does the old man get to ride and the young boy have to walk?"

So they both climbed up on the mule. As they came to the next town all the people were shocked and said,

"How can you make that poor mule carry both of you?"

So they both got off the mule and they both walked next to the mule. As they got to the last town all the people watching laughed at them and said,

"Why are you both walking when someone could be riding the mule?"

Look Who's TWO!!

2009-02-28T09:35:00.003-06:00

Coen - sweet innocent little whirlwind that is just too cute.

Jenny on her 2nd birthday - I can see some mother/son resemblance - especially in the cheeks and that little smirk they both have. (The others in the picture are Sherri, Grandpa & Grandma McCoy and me - You notice almost everyone else in the picture is trying to help her blow out the candle?)

HAPPY BIRTHDAY SWEET COEN

Love you always!!

Are We Being 'Schnucked'?

2009-02-25T14:35:00.004-06:00

Ok - I just want to know - what's the deal? I know that I don't keep up with current events, politics and stuff like that - but am I only going to be able to get 'Schnucks' brand stuff at Schnucks soon? I have noticed the increased amount of items that look like the brand I'm use to but are really Schnucks - (they thought they could fool me - ha) but now they don't even offer me the other brand at all. I'm sure a lot of this stuff is the same with just a different name - but I can tell by looking at those cookies that they are not going to taste as good - so I didn't buy any. And my garbage bags are ok but they are not as thick as my old brand. And I admit - once - just once - they did fool me and the Schnucks brand cheese just didn't make the grade with me. Maybe I'll switch over to Shop and Save or make the trip all the way to Dierberg's - are they doing the same thing? Oh - and I almost forgot the real kicker - once they eliminate the 'other' brand - the Schnuck price is the same as I was paying if not more!

Butter Tub Cereal Bowls??

2009-02-23T14:23:00.006-06:00

It seems most of the movies and books I've read lately have been about WWII - and how there were just regular people willing to help escapees just to stay alive. Even amidst all that evil there were still many brave people who were willing to do what was right in spite of the threat to their own lives. I have a theory that there are some (but too few) people who just almost always can be counted on to do the right thing. There are many, many who are just in it for themselves. But I think the majority of us are somewhere in between - we feel really bad for the one needing help and we just hope we have what it takes to step up to the task.

On a smaller scale, I've always loved those commercials and the movie about "passing it on" - "it" being an act of kindness. Last night at small group someone was talking about some 'random acts of kindness' they had witnessed lately at checkout counters because of the economy and loss of jobs. It reminded me of stories my mom use to tell me about the Depression. She said there were always men and sometimes families stopping at the back door seeking a little of whatever could be spared. Somehow, they were always able to scrape up some food or clothes to share. That attitude always remained with my parents. I particularly remember daddy and I taking bags of groceries down the street to an old german couple who could barely speak English. But I know my parents were always willing to help out - even if it was just to send me next door to shovel the walks. They were little things but it was just what you were suppose to do.

I'll be the first one to tell you I don't understand the politics or the technicalities of our failing economy - and I have no idea if I should start saving my butter tubs (why exactly did people who went through the depression save these??) or worse - start saving catalogs for toilet paper. But I really wonder if we'll be seeing more 'random acts of kindness' or if society has gotten so far gone that the thieves and violence are going to take over. I thinking maybe we all need to step up and look for those opportunities to lend a hand when we can and then to tell them to "pass it on".

A Few Lessons I've Learned

2009-02-15T16:26:00.004-06:00

These are just a few of the things I've learned through the years - sometimes I need to be reminded of them and maybe you will find a nugget you wish you knew.

1- Even if it's only a Christmas card - never lose contact with old friends.

2-Things are seldom as bad as someone complains, get another opinion and give it time.

3-Take more pictures.

4-Write down everything.

5-Keep a journal of memories.

6-Never pass up a hug.

7-There's no excuse for being unkind. (from mama)

8-People who tell you a secret will tell your secrets. (from mama)

9-Those few pounds you gain every year eventually add up.

10-Learn to drive a stickshift.

11-Before your children leave home make them teach you the secrets to the tv remote, the answering machine, the computer, and your own cell phone.

12-Treat your children's spouses as your own children. (from mama)

13-Do your very best at any job you're given to do - no matter how menial. (from daddy)

14-Laugh at yourself. (from Joe & Jimmy)

15-It's enough food until it's all gone and then it's just gone. (from Nancy)

16-Your heart holds more love than you can ever give away - no matter how many children or grandchildren - and they are ALL your favorite.

17-Teach the children Bible songs and Bible stories.

18-Kids are a lot tougher - physically and emotionally - that we give them credit for.

19-It's ok if he doesn't change poopy diapers as long as he cleans up "dead critters.'

20-There is no magic face cream.

Page Turners

2009-02-11T15:20:00.002-06:00

The last few weeks my free time has been filled with some books that have been real "page turners". A lot of people would not enjoy these type novels but they were 'escape' type novels for me that I not only enjoyed but found hard to put down. They may even be older books - 2 of them have been sitting on my "to be read" shelf for a while.

Timeline is by Michael Crichton and is about quantom time travel back to the middle ages. Really enjoyed the bad guy's ending!

The Hades Factor by Robert Ludlum & Gayle Lynds is an international thriller about a deadly virus.

Sarah's Key by Tatiana de Rosnay is our book club book and although horribly sad because it was based on a real incident - (the roundup of Jewish families in Paris in 1942) - it was well written where you wanted to keep reading. The ending was a little weak but most of the book was good.

I couldn't help thinking how all three of these books could easily be turned into a good movie. But read them first because you know what they say "Don't judge a book by it's movie." If anyone wants to borrow them, let me know.

I guess I better start looking for my next book to read - so many books and so little time!

Spencer is 5 Today

2009-02-07T14:21:00.005-06:00

I don't have a picture of Karl when he was 5 but here is Jenny on her 5th birthday.

And this is a picture I stole from Jen's blog on her now and Spencer at age 5.

I can see some of the mommy in Spencer but the curls are all Karl for sure.

He's has such good looking parents he can't help how cute he is!

The birthday party is tonight - HAPPY BIRTHDAY SPENCER!!

Love you always!

Jessie & Millie's Birthdays

2009-02-02T22:29:00.003-06:00

Jessie's birthday is tomorrow and Millie's was last week so this past Saturday we were able to get together and do a combined celebration. I didn't get very many good photos (I think I was too busy playing with the kids and cutting cake) but I did manage to get this one of the two birthday girls!

Happy Birthday Jessie

and Happy Belated Birthday Millie!

A Blog for Spencer

2009-01-27T10:56:00.004-06:00

The last few times I've been over to see Spencer he has crawled up in my lap and asked me to tell him a story - his mom says he's been asking her for stories a lot lately and he has his favorites he likes to hear. She and I usually tell him a true story about someone in the family but sometimes he makes up his own story that he wants you to tell - like the one where I catch an octopus.

Jen likes to tell him about when she and Becky dressed up Stevie in a dress and I do actually have that picture but I wasn't sure if Stevie would appreciate that one being on the blog. (I"ll show it to you when you come over though, Spencer)

Another favorite of his is when I was a little girl and I'd visit my grandparents on the farm. Since they had outdoor plumbing you had to make a trip to the outhouse when the need arose. Grandpa had a mean old rooster that would chase you across the yard and try to spur you and Grandpa would come out and chase the old rooster away.

Above is a picture of my Grandpa and below is a picture of me at the farm.

Another favorite story is when daddy took me out in a boat at Reelfoot Lake to fish and I refused to bait my own hook or remove fish from said hook. I was catching fish so fast that he never had a chance to do his own fishing - and that was my last trip out on a boat because he said I couldn't go again until I learned to do my own baiting - which I was never gonna do!!

This is a picture of me with my catch that day.

He also likes to hear about my friend Roger - how we would not ring doorbells but I would stand outside and holler "O Roger!" at the top of my lungs. I told Spencer about me trying to jump over the fire hydrant and splitting my head open. I told him how Roger and I often played "Superman & Supergirl" or played with his huge train set that he had. Below is a picture of us playing 'house' - although I was a tomboy Roger was fair in playing 'my' games too.

One more favorite of Spencer's - about our trip to the library on a hot day when the car windows were down and Jen saying in her very matter-of-fact way "Becky just threw her shoe out the window." Below is a picture of about how old Mommy and Aunt Becky were at that time.

And the last two pictures are just some I thought Spencer might get a kick out of.

This is your mom's collection of stuffed animals when she was about your age. Some of them are probably Aunt Becky's too and most of them are curtesy of GG.

And I just thought Spencer would like this picture of Uncle Stevie and Popo since he is so big time into Superheroes.

I guess I'll have to start remembering some more stories - I can always use some help if anyone can think of any I could share with the grandkids.

Extinct in America

2009-01-13T09:20:00.002-06:00

I recently got an email about 24 things about to become extinct in America. Most of them were no surprise because we've seen them coming due to the internet and new technology.

The Wild Horses and the Milkman kinda surprised me because I thought they were already extinct.

I think the saddest one is #9 - but thanks to Stevie I still get a letter now and then - just because he's such a sweetie and he knows it brings me a smile and makes my day.

Here's the list in case you weren't aware:

24 - Yellow Pages

23-Classified Ads

22-Movie Rental Stores

21-Dial-Up Internet access

20-Phone Landlines

19-Chesapeake Bay Blue Crabs

18-VCR's

17-Ash Trees

16-Ham Radio

15-The Swimming Hole

14-Answering Machines

13-Cameras that use film

12-Incandescent Bulbs

11-Stand-Alone Bowling Alleys

10-The Milkman

9-Hand-Written Letters

8-Wild Horses

7-Personal Checks

6-Drive-In Theaters

5-Mumps & Measles

4-Honey Bees

3-News Magazines and TV News

2-Analog TV

1-The Family Farm

Happy New Year

2008-12-30T09:51:00.005-06:00

The Five Best Reasons 2008 was so much fun:

Gracie, Ayden, Jackson, Spencer, & Coen

It's the New Year and time for resolutions and goal setting for some - but not for me. Unlike Uncle Ed, Kathryn, and probably several others of you - I've never been very good at stating what I hope to accomplish within the next year. I follow the Calvin & Hobbes philosophy - "I find my life a lot easier the lower I keep everyone's expectations."

But I don't mind looking back to see what I have or haven't accomplished. For the last several years I've made it my goal to read through the Bible and have been successful each year in that endeavor. I've never set a goal of how many books to read (but I do keep track - 34 in 2008) but I was determined to read Uncle Tom's Cabin which has been sitting on my shelf for a number of years. Not only did I get it read but I truly enjoyed it.

We didn't travel much (partly because Steve hates 'road trips' and I hate flying) but we did make it to Disney World.

I tried to give up blogging but actually not only kept my blog updated a couple times a month but also joined Facebook.

I'm still walking a few times a week but not as often as I should. We're not even going to talk about the weight I continue to fail to shed.

I did learn a little Spanish and Sudoko but I still haven't figured out a lot of things on my Mac.

I only had one new grandchild (Jackson) this year - but I didn't really expect the kids to keep up the '3 a year' goal. :) But I have been blessed with time with all the grandkids and also with many of my friends.

In all, 2008 has been a good journey. There have been many peaks and of course there have been valleys - but God is good and I'm thankful for every day I'm blessed with. I pray the new year will bring us mostly blessings and any sorrows will make us stronger and draw us nearer to God.

Marching Forward

2008-12-26T11:02:00.003-06:00

It is 10:50 AM on December 26 and you'd never know it had been Christmas here - except for some leftovers. Of course, I still have to clean and put back all the un-Christmas stuff - but at least the tree and all the decorations are put away for another year. We had a great Christmas and all the kids were able to be here - even though a couple of them were slightly under the weather. I know some of you think I'm a Scrooge but I find it too depressing to have a Christmas tree without presents underneath anymore. Time to start thinking about the New Year. Happy Holidays to all!

Merry Christmas to All

2008-12-23T15:21:00.007-06:00

"The best of all gifts around any Christmas tree:

the presence of a happy family all wrapped up in each other."

Burton Hillis

I don't know why my kids call their children 'hams' - I think they come by it naturally. I may not have gotten many great photos but we had a lot of laughs. I hope all who read this has a very Merry Christmas and

makes a lot of happy memories again this year.

Use this picture to remember what a White Christmas might look like.

"And the Grinch, with his Grinch-feet ice cold in the snow, stood puzzling, how could it be so? It came without ribbons. It came without tags. It came without packages, boxes or bags. And he puzzled and puzzled 'till his puzzler was sore. Then the Grinch thought of something he hadn't before. What if Christmas, he thought, doesn't come from a store. What if Christmas, perhaps, means a little bit more."

Dr. Seuss

"I will honor Christmas in my heart, and try to keep it all the year."

Charles Dickens

"May peace be your gift at Christmas and your blessing all year through."

Author Unknown

"God bless us everyone."

Charles Dickens' Tiny Tim

"Merry Christmas to all and to all a good night."

Clement C. Moore

They Call the Wind Mariah - and other random thoughts

2008-12-19T09:29:00.002-06:00

Before I even got out of bed this morning I made myself promise to get on the treadmill today - my back and leg pain have been keeping me from it but I know I really needed to walk. However, as I sat sipping my coffee and watching out the window - the wind kept calling my name. I love walking out in the wind as long as it's not a sharp cold wind, so I wrapped up and enjoyed a lovely walk - I really didn't even want to come back in. Now I feel so much better - like some of the cobwebs have blown out of my head.

Just finished reading "The Hour I First Believed". I can't decide what I really think of it. It could easily have been about 4 novels because he covers so many subjects but it was basically about the effect Columbine had on it's surviving victims.

Last night we went to the Rep with Ed & Nancy and enjoyed a short (75 minutes) but very lively play - "It's A Wonderful Life". It's a one man act and we weren't sure what to expect but it was delightful and we all gave it a thumbs up. The actor throws in a lot of 'common sense' notes about the original play - like "why would a bank official come to check the books on Christmas Eve?" I think it's showing until the 28th so if you have time you should go see it.

The play made me think about other Christmas movies that we all watch over and over again. I still love watching the old "Christmas Carol" but I like the newer Scrooged too. (I love it when the spirit of Christmas Present hits Bill Murray with a toaster). I know my kids like Christmas Vacation, Elf, and The Christmas Story - but I can't stand watching the part where the kid gets his tongue stuck to the pole - ouch!

Actually some of my favorite not really Christmas movies are "While You Were Sleeping" and "Sleepless in Seattle". Maybe you can remind me of some movies I need to watch this week - what movies are a must for you to watch during the Christmas holidays? It's less than a week away - hope everyone is almost ready - I need to get cleaning up around here - Merry Christmas!!!

Santa Claus visits - then and now

2008-12-13T13:10:00.007-06:00

Christmas is a season that always brings memories of many sorts. I am very lucky that all my memories have been happy ones - or at least not awful.

Christmas flickers:

-The song "Silver Bells" always transports me to Cherokee street where mama would take us on the bus to do our 'shopping' and the street always seemed so magical and 'Christmasy' with bells and holiday greetings type chatter.

-Talking to Jen about all the illnesses their family is going through right now reminded me of a Christmas when I was awful sick (maybe measles?) and I laid on the couch and stared at the Christmas lights and ornaments for hours at a time (did we not have a tv back then??)

-My grandkids visiting Santa - my own visit when I was old enough to remember. Mama took us downtown to the Famous-Barr to visit Santa and we got to check out all the store windows that were always a main attraction with all the animations.

Because Steve is the 'Piano Man' for Breakfast with Santa we get to join in with the fun. Gracie wasn't able to come but be sure to check out Becky's blog for her Santa picture - and I'm sure Jen with have better photos on hers as well.

Spencer and Coen seemed quite comfortable on Jolly St. Nick's lap.

Jackson was spared all the trauma - his daddy is jolly enough.

(Who does he remind you of Jimmy??)

Ayden did not want to get near Santa -

she much preferred sitting with her cousins and watching Popo do his stuff.

Now for some memories -

Jen, Becky, & Stevie when they were old enough to like Santa.

Stevie wouldn't sit on his lap but Mrs. Claus could hold him.

This was a riot - Jenny is trying to hang on to Stevie while I'm trying to keep Becky from bolting - the little ones were not too fond of Santa at this point.

Before siblings - Jenny posing just perfectly.

I guess she takes after her cousin Terri Ann

(Uncle Ed tells me that this picture which is marked "Ann" on my copy so I thought was me is actually his daughter - and he probably knows best since I wouldn't remember either way.)

Well, my shopping is all done and just a few presents left to wrap - I'm ready to just enjoy the holiday now. Merry Christmas everyone - hope your holidays are great!!

Early Thanksgiving

2008-11-22T19:43:00.006-06:00

Thanksgiving has always been my favorite holiday - even when I was a kid. It's always been the time for cousins, aunts, uncles, etc to all get together and just visit and eat. About 20 years ago I've hosted Thanksgivings with close to 50 people a few times but it was usually more like 25 - 30. A few years ago it just got to be too much - the family just kept growing and growing and my old body just couldn't keep up that pace. So the last few years it's been our kids' families and Steve's mom. I was at a loss when I found out all the kids had other things going this year. Karl's family is coming in for the holiday for the first time in 8 years so Jen is getting her first big Thanksgiving dinner together. Stevie & Jessie are spending the holiday with her family. Becky & Nate were willing to come to dinner at both families but that seemed kinda silly to make them do that - especially since Al & Angie so graciously invited us and GG to join them for the day. But I still couldn't just not have Thanksgiving with my kids so we did it today. Hope I didn't spoil the real deal for them but I'm thankful for my beautiful family and their willingness to let me get my Thanksgiving fix. And as has always been our tradition - since today was Thanksgiving here - tomorrow the Christmas tree goes up - Happy Holidays everyone!!

Happy Birthday Gracie

2008-11-15T07:46:00.004-06:00

Today is Gracie's birthday and she had a great party last night. She was so cute in her little pink tutu. We had Dewey's pizza & salad and then Kelly R. had made her cakes and they were delicious and so adorable. I think she got enough presents to last her until Christmas at least - the toy vacuum that Grandma & Grandpa Kelley got her was the hit with her and all the cousins - I think they should just make real ones and let the kids really clean. We all had a great time and I hope you have another fun day today on your real birthday. Happy Birthday Gracie - love you always!!

Book, Election, Illness, & Autumn

2008-11-05T09:03:00.005-06:00

I'm sure a number of you were watching election results last night but I chose to curl up and finish a good book I was reading, Ken Follett's World Without End. It's a good historical fiction but not for the faint of heart. In fact I think I caught my cold from it - there was a large section about a plague that starts with sneezing and that was when my 'sneezing' day hit - of course, mine only turned into a nasty cold that I'm still fighting but it doesn't look like I'm going to die from the plague.

The book also had a lot of politics in it - it was back in the 1300's in England - those poor people really had a lot to deal with - not only kings and lords but priests and priors.

I am so VERY glad that this election is finally over - my phone has not rung once in the last hour! I was never a strong opponent for either candidate, I just voted for what I considered to be the lesser evil. I know we are all in God's hands and if Obama was His choice or not - He'll make something good come from it. What I'm really hoping is that all the silly squabbling will stop -there have been elections where Steve and I simply went to cancel out each other's vote - but we didn't argue about it. With a little maturity you realize that you can't make everybody see it your way so just accept the fact to agree to disagree but don't let it mess with your relationships. We can overcome anything if we just let our love for each other come first. I'm stealing a quote from Suzanne on FB who stole it from someone else's blog:

"No matter what happens on election day our task remains the same, to do justly, love mercy, and walk humbly."

As for me, I'm ready to put the election behind me and just move on. I always take fall pictures which is really kinda silly because you just can't really capture the beauty that God has created with these colors. It's a 'you have to be there' kinda thing. I think I will get dressed and go take a nice walk - the leaves are falling fast and furious now and wet and colder weather is headed our way - have to get in all this autumn joy while I can. Hope you all have a great day!

Sorting Through Pictures

2008-10-23T10:40:00.004-05:00

When I was a little girl, my mom had a single shoebox of pictures that I use to love to go through and look at. I have 7 boxes of pictures that I chose not to put in my albums. They just didn't take many pictures back then. The earliest one I have of my mom was when she graduated high school and I only have one of my dad as a child before his graduation picture. There are a few of my McCoy grandparents that are pretty good but I'd love to have a good photo of my Cloud grandparents. There really are not very many of me as child either - lots of Nancy and Jimmy though :)

I can remember taking pictures of my own kids and just hoping I got a half way decent shot because I only had a few more frames left and I might need those shots for something else that might happen that day.

Today we have digital and I love it because you don't have to worry about using up too much film for a single shot - you can take 20 of the same moment and still have plenty left on your little card - whatever it's called.

But that also means when my kids give me over 500 pictures to choose from for my own albums - I end up with lots of pictures. In 2007 when we had 3 grandkids born - I have four albums for the one year. Before digital I could have 2 years of pictures in one album. But I still love the digital - even if I can't fit them all in my albums - I have boxes! There are some pictures that just highlight a certain personality that I want to keep even if I don't put them in my album.

For example:

What we like to call Spencer's 'Chandler' smile

Coen's innocent look

The Gracie Stare - she can outstare anyone.

Ayden's 'I'm not sure I like this' expression

And I have no idea what expressions we'll be getting from Jackson in the future

- but he even sleeps cute.

Remember all those old war movies and stories where they had a single photo of their family or 'true love' - I don't know but I'm guessing that the new technology allows our heroes to carry several family pictures on little key ring size albums. I guess it's kinda like the difference between getting a letter and a dozen emails today - I still miss letters but that's a whole different story.

5 Things

2008-10-09T08:39:00.002-05:00

I have been tagged.

10 Years ago I was:

1.-Missing Jen away at Mizzou but knew she was having fun.

2.- Missing Becky away at DLU and very sad because I knew she was terribly homesick.

3.- Keeping track of Stevie and going to his basketball games. (this is the right season isn't it, Stevie?)

4.- Just recently went to Edward & Karen's wedding.

5.- Working as church secretary.

5 things on today's 'to do' list:

1.- Do my physical therapy exercises and take a walk.

2.- Run errands to Walgreens, Schnucks, bookstore, Target.

3.- Catch up on my bible reading and my 2 & 3 year old bible lessons.

4.- Clean off my desk!

5.- The usual laundry and kitchen duties.

5 snacks I enjoy:

1.- coffee & biscotti

2,- ice cream

3.- anything cheesy

4.- chocolate cookies and milk

5.- chips and dip

5 things I would do if I were a millionaire:

1.-3 - Give some to my kids for house payments or bills

4.- give to church and charities

5. - save for my old folks home so I don't have to go to the one Nate picked out for me.

5 places I have lived:

1.- South St. Louis with parents

2.- OCC - Oklahoma

3.- South county with Steve & Jen

4.- present home with Steve & kids - and now just Steve again

5.- TBA in about 40 years

5 jobs I have had:

1.- bus girl/cashier at Miss Hullings

2.- check out at Bettendorf's/Schnucks

3.- payroll, cost acct., and acct.s rec. at Alumax foils

4.- part time work with a temp service and at Rotolite

5.- secretary at McKnight

OK - now I tag Sherri and Lindsey because they desperately need to change their blogs!

2008-10-07T12:42:00.002-05:00

When I was in 8th grade I had one of my favorite all time teachers who was also a close friend of my mom's from church- Mrs. Flowers. She always made us reach beyond what we thought we could do. One of the things we had to do since it was an election year was to give a speech to support a candidate we chose. On graduation day she gave us all little diplomas with her predictions of what we would become in life. Mine said (I still have it): "Ann McCoy is the first woman mayor of St. Louis. She became interested in politics while making speeches at Oak Hill during the 1964 Presidential Campaign."

And then when I decided to take Paralegal courses, the only avenue was to major in Political Science.

I find this all very amusing because in truth I have a very strong dislike for politics!

Basically it's the constant bickering and mud slinging I hate so much. I've always avoided confrontations and debates. I was tired of the commercials after the first week they began and I've quit answering the phone or the doorbell unless I'm sure of who it is. But of course I cannot truly escape the election. It's discussed within the family, who all have different ideas and reasons as to who should be president. I hear it whenever we're with friends or neighbors - it even got more discussion at my book club last night than the book we were suppose to discuss!!

Now before you start lecturing me about how I should be informed and appreciate my freedoms - let me make it clear that I find all this campaigning very annoying but fully realize how necessary it is. And I am deeply appreciative of my freedoms - I thank God everyday for allowing me to live in the USA. I admit I kinda wish God would just give us a president like when He had David anointed but that's not the way it works these days. I will vote on election day but I am waiting until most of you are done 'campaigning' and the dust has settled before I make my choice.

The bible says that we are to obey and show respect to our rulers as long as their laws don't contradict God's laws. I can do that. Even if I don't believe in their policies that might support abortion, gay rights, give us lousy medical choices, ruin our economy, keep us in the war or pull us out too soon - whatever - I can be a law abiding citizen and still retain my own personal beliefs and remain faithful to God. God's people have been doing that from the start.

So, I look forward to the day this is all settled and for four more years we just move on. I just hope most everyone can 'just move on'. (I hear that there are some who still fight the Civil War.) Here is a quote from a book I liked (Tending Roses by Lisa Wingate) that I hope can be taken to heart.

"What we cannot change, we must endure without bitterness. Sometimes we must try to view the actions of those around us with forgiveness. We must realize that they are going on the only road they can see. Sometimes we cannot raise our chins and see eye to eye, so we must bow our heads and have faith in one another."

Memory of a Doctor

2008-10-02T11:37:00.002-05:00

Last night as I was leaving my bible class I saw Dr. J taking one of his young patients aside for a quick check on something - I know he's good about that and my daughters love that he is the pediatrician for their kids. Our family doctor is great about that also. Dr. C has checked on me a number of times and I often see him taking others aside for a quick 'office' visit. It is nice having Christian doctors who feel more like family than doctor.

But for some reason I had a back flash of the doctor of my youth - Dr. S.

I really only remember 3 incidents about Dr. S but it's enough to be extra thankful for people like Dr. C and Dr. J.

The first thing I remember about him was when I was about 5 years old. I played with the 2 boys down the block and one night Davey tried to jump over the fire hydrant and was badly hurt. Now why I thought I could jump over the fire hydrant after watching Davey get hurt is beyond me. I was never considered the brains in the family. So, I tried the same trick the next night and split my head open. I remember 3 things (aren't you proud of me Uncle Ed - three points within my three points!!)

1- I remember my brother Joe scooping me up and placing me on the kitchen table - which I just couldn't believe I was laying on the kitchen table bleeding all over.

2- I remember my mom crying - and I guess it must have been the first time I had seen her cry. After all, she was always telling me that if I didn't hush my crying she would give me something to cry about. I was a very sensitive and emotional child but I knew she never hesitated when she started swinging that hairbrush.

3- And I'm not sure if I really remember this or just the retelling of this - but Dr. S yelling at mama for bringing me to City Hospital.

The second Dr. S incident was an office visit. Again - I'm not sure if I really witnessed this or just remember the story. But mama was taking either Jimmy or I for a doctor visit and we were the next ones to be called into his office. The door opened and this kid came out screaming and holding his face - and his mother was furious! When we walked into the office Dr. S said "the kid kicked me so I slapped him" and he seemed to think that slapping a young child was quite all right. Today he would be sued if not worse.

The third incident was one I remember quite well. I was in high school and had a plantar's wart on my foot. He began by telling me that he would burn it out and of course this sounds scary to me. So I ask if it will hurt and he fumed a little and said I wouldn't feel a thing. I was doubtful but I let him do it and it really wasn't too bad. After I had this open wound he told me he was going to pour alcohol over it. Worried about the pain, I pulled back my foot and he lost it. Went ballistic! He ripped off a bandage on his hand and poured the bottle of alcohol over it and yelled, "see it doesn't hurt - I didn't even wince!!!" I actually doubt if he would have winced no matter how much it might hurt. I couldn't wait to get out of there and I'm pretty sure that was the last time I went to him.

Shortly after that we heard he had a major stroke and our records were passed on to another doctor who was a bit of a quack but at least he didn't scare me. REALLY makes me appreciate Dr. C and glad the kids have Dr. J!!

NOT My Favorite Book

2008-09-28T14:51:00.002-05:00

I just finished reading The Story of Edgar Sawtelle. I wish I had known that Oprah was going to make this book her book club choice and then I wouldn't have bothered to have read it. As a rule, any book Oprah suggests I refuse to read. She seems to go for the depressing 'what was the point in reading this' book.

I admit there have been a few exceptions when I had read a book and liked it and THEN found out she had it on her list. Sad to say, I was already two-thirds through this book before she announced it as her latest book choice - and another rule I have is once I've started a book I will finish the book no matter how bad it is. Don't get me wrong - I have nothing against Oprah. Truthfully, I really don't know much about her but my daughter tells me she's very generous and basically has a good heart - she just happens to enjoy books that I don't.

What's the problem with the book? If you have a deep desire to know the details about dog training, what a dog might be thinking, or the history of this particular dog farm - (all of which has almost nothing to do with the story line) and you like really dumb endings where the dog is the only winner - then please enjoy.

There is actually a good story line about a mute 'dog whisperer' boy, his family, and his relationship with the dogs. It has some paranormal and some mystery but you could easily cut out about 250 of the 560 pages and not miss a thing. I hope I haven't ruined the book for anyone - I know there are some who will really enjoy the book - like Oprah - but I prefer to get my book suggestions from friends like Cathy, Kathryn, Nancy and Kris - who haven't steered me wrong yet.